Recognizing the Obstacles
and number four is what's preventing you from getting it? There's a saying You can't travel East looking for a sunset. No matter how hard you try, it's just not gonna happen, is it? You can stick it out of the most passion, the most talent, the most intelligence. You're just never gonna find it. So what does that mean? Well, it just simply means that we need a strategy and a plan again. Always all goes back to Who am I what I want? Dig deep. All right, Dig day. Because then, when we've defined what we want, we can then recognize what's stopping us from getting it. We obviously don't have it yet because there are a couple obstacles and challenges that's limited us whether they're circumstantial or our own limiting beliefs. Something stopping us. Usually there's a couple things. What are those things here? Fear. Thank you. That is number one up there for sure was scared, don't we, Lisa? Yes. Looking for permission? Looking for permission? Exactly. Not knowing how to get to where you want...
to go, Not knowing the steps you need to take who you need to talk to when you need to do? Yes, How that's very good. Very, very good. It's. And the good thing is, here's the good news. There's solutions to all of these things, but write down every single one that's stopping you. Anyone else that's that wants to share may be on the online space that's stopping them from getting what they want. But we have people who are just sharing some more things about what they want to get to where their goals are. Anya, 82 says. I want to be a teacher, a teacher that helps the students buying their own style, who opens their eyes to other worlds and helps them grow without limiting their creativity. Perfect. Okay, so Kanye said she wants to be a teacher that wants to ah, have the students grow without limiting their creativity. Exactly. OK, so a solution to that is it really goes back to her values, too, because she I think you know, when I did a talk at Cesar Chavez Elementary School, these kids, we're so the pen, you know, an insane on nature to be curious and open. And what I found in people is that find, whatever the best way to motivate people is to find what what already motivates them. That's what I found is most important. And I think the second pot having them the ability to be creative. It's natural for them. You know, their kids. They will. They will want to do that. So now becoming a teacher is really OK. Is it a formal thing? Is it time, money? All those things. So here are the four common obstacles that I found that hinder many of our goals. We always say I don't have enough time That way. I'll get to It just happened. So busy. I have time. What? Did you be enough to just be busy? How you been made. I just mean flat out just being busy. It's like an automatic reaction. We gotta change that up. We've got to prioritized. Then I don't have money. I'm saving what he said, saving we obviously saving for something else that matters more to you. We came into this world with nothing and we will live with nothing. You know, if you look at all this that most successful people in the world, they came into success because off their sacrifices blood, sweat and tears, they made that circumstance happen for them. Fear what Jen pointed out here in the audience. Fear of what? Well, failure, Rejection. Disappointment. Uh, I'm not wanted. I'm gonna fail. I'm not good enough. There's gonna be a lot more about tackling that particular one. But in essence, I suggest that you fail and fell quickly because it's really experience is the best teacher. Lack of knowledge. I don't know enough, right? How bit? I don't know how to do that. So here are some solutions to those problems. Time poor. He's a thought, whether you're the president of the United States or you know, you were the greatest athlete in the world or you know any iconic person. But you say as wow, how did they do that? They all had 24 hours in the Diet Sudan. They it's the same is like night. And didn't that surely had at least 26? Um, so it's important to prioritize. Essentially, you're procrastinating on something that is possibly because of fear. Or you're doing something else because maybe you're scared. Maybe you think it's too hard or too difficult. Okay, this just prioritize. Okay? So lack of money, you know I've been to a couple seminars about wealth and all that sort of stuff. I'm sure we've all been sucked into one of those how to build wealth in 20. How it's so like you see the ad or anything like that, but simply work and safe. You know what it's It's amazing how much stuff we spend on things we don't need honestly working safe. There was a point where I worked three jobs when I was studying, was a bartender working that came up. I was working on cleaning, helping my dad clean officers. That's what allowed me to travel. Having you travel so much wouldn't get the money. I work my butt off, that's how. Simply put, I didn't you know either that or rob a bank, but that's against my values. I wanted it bad enough. Exactly exactly. So then this fee, as we said, Rejection, failure, disappointment, briefly touching this but further is necessary for growth. And this question really helps me that what's the worst that can happen? Really? What is the worst that can happen? I you're gonna die, probably not most the time, Um, because regret is far more painful now. Lack of knowledge. He's the things that have helped me a lot. Research research to the core. Just go nuts research and dig deep. And you know what? There's no excuse. Now the Internet makes it super easy. Creative life research. There you go. How do you create it'll cut, put for, um, find some mentors. That is so huge. If you think about it, they have carved away for you as if you're not just gonna follow him through that path. They've made all the mistakes for you, most of them anyway. Of course you're crafting your own story. But mentors have done what you ultimately want to do. Find those mentors. And again, they don't have to be. Ah, but you know, I'm not from America. I'm not from the UK. I'm not from, you know, how do I get in touch? Send him a tweet. I bet they'll respond. It's It's in fact, so easy to connect with people these days. You'll be surprised how easy it is to get the conversation going with the mental in my are ah, other workshop on getting the design job you want. I told Maura about mentors as well, volunteering yourself is also a good way. Most of the time, they don't have money for you to learn with them. So you know what? Here's a tip. Take down that barrier full of them. Is it okay if I if I you know, being the background for a day once week for a couple weeks? Can I just observe while you work? Just purely voluntarily? Volunteering has gotten me a lot of experience of very, very quickly and again participate online and offline. You will learn from a whole bunch of people there. So the lessons from this segment before we bring on the wonderful Davor Guth Miller Ah, the following. We have been able to get some tools and some questions and really have some quality ways of thinking and approaches on how to eliminate the fear and anxiety. By replacing that with confidence, purpose and personal value, we've been able to clear, articulate out personal brand and story on your lovely note pads. We've been able to visualize exactly what job you want and identify any obstacles. Okay, We've gone through some common ones and by digging deeper Yo, now, ready to stop planning