Posing Guidance for Him
I'm gonna start with guidance for him. So, this is actually the way that we start every one of our shoots. Okay, we always encourage our clients, this is Travis. Travis, he's amazing, full beard, I love it. So, Travis we're gonna be posing you in several different kinda positions, kinda showing people how to pose. And this is the thing I know Travis and Danielle you guys have posing experience. I want you guys to kinda pretend like you don't. Okay, so just forget it. So, when it comes to guidance for him. Well, starting with the stance. So, basically what we usually say is we're going to go with the wide stance. So, working our way from feet up, right? Wide stance if they ask how wide 'cause some guys will kinda do this, they'll be like yeah, what's up and like their legs are really far apart and you're like, not like riding a horse wide, but like shoulder-width. Okay shoulder-width feet out. Now the toes are kind of a big thing. This is the weird thing, these are body language things ...
that we don't necessarily know why they are this way. We just know that they have a certain effect and from the setting, or from the different scientific studies that have been done, and the books that I've read on this. I've learned that it's because of lack of confidence. So when you have your toes pointed in, this actually is a sign for a guy of a lack of confidence. So, if it looks a little bit odd and you'll see it when you pose a bunch of groomsmen, almost always, if you have eight people, if you have eight groomsmen, they will be one guy that has his feet in, a little bit and he's just like this. Okay so, wide stance, toes pointed out, straight spine. I'm gonna be talking a lot about the spine and it's one of those things that and we're also gonna reference some stuff from Roberto Valenzuela, he's a friend of mine, he is a great course that we're gonna be talking about. It's one of the courses that we're gonna reference and recommend later on. But the spine is such a big deal. Okay, the spine is huge in your posing. And what we wanna do is let me get you over here brother. I'm a little bit touchy feely is that Is that okay?
Yeah, Sure that's fine
Okay (audience laughs) Rub my back.
Okay, you said it was fine dude.
Yeah, okay, it's all good.
Okay so, what we're gonna do is, I want you to stand profile, just so they can see the profile. I want you to as you're standing, just let your back relax and kind of sit over. Just like you would be sitting in front of a computer basically. (laughs) That's a lot, that's like the screens really low on your keyboard. You gotta get a bigger screen. Okay so, you can see the rounded spine right here. What we wanna do is we wanna straighten out pieces of, certain parts of the spine. The lumbar spine, the lower spine, we wanna keep it rounded out. So you're gonna keep a smiley face right here. Okay, so kinda keep this rounded out. And then your upper spine, you're gonna keep straightened out. And if you are, a lot of our clients are doctors and medical professionals and so I like to say this is your lumbar spine. This is your thoracic spine. This is your, it makes me look cool. Like, I'm like a doctor, just without any of the degrees and stuff. Same thing, though. Okay so, that's our spine stance. Next thing we do, you can face the camera again and what you'll notice is that as soon as somebody does that, it's like a one to two inch difference in their height. Okay so it gets them stood up and it gets them looking tall. And the next thing is basically to expand the chest. So, before a photograph we'll tell our guys, take a breath in. Take a breath and expand the chest. Do you see how it automatically opens the chest up? And it makes it look like he just did about 50 pushups, in a breath. (breathing in) Don't we all want that?
Yeah I did just do, 50.
You did? I should've done 50 pushups, I'm jealous. Okay, relaxed shoulders, what this means is that sometimes a guy has a tendency to kinda leave the shoulders up. We want him to just kinda hang, relax. Let him take the weight off his shoulders and then basically the hands, we need to do something with the hands, and when we're not doing something with the hands, we leave them at rest. So, and the meaning to this is that, if you were just to hold your hand out like this. That's weird right?
Like, you know how like in there's different movies, Will Ferrell's one of my favorite actors, and he's like "I don't know what to do with my hands." Remember that in, yeah, Talladega Nights. Guys, we don't know what to do with. I know I love it when like, the guys smile and the girls are like Will Ferrell who cares. (audience laughs) Okay, but my wife doesn't get Will Ferrell jokes. So, guys we don't know what to do with our hands. That's the basic truth is, the simple thing is if you bring a hand up. You're giving it a purpose to be up. If it's up and there's no purpose, then that looks off. Okay, so we have to have purpose. If you hold you hand out like this, one hand out, that doesn't make sense. But as soon as I put a mug, then that actually makes sense now, right? So now, it's like, okay this is a mug. But the thing is, hands draw a lot of attention too. We refer to this as basically, you're giving energy to his arm, right? You're basically bringing it up into a pose and so, what happens is our visual attention is draw towards the mug. If you want to hold something and not bring visual attention to it, we bring it back to rest. So you can hold that now at rest. Okay, so he can still hold something, if he wants to have something in his hands. Like sometimes when, you know, it doesn't matter when you're posing if a guy is holding something you don't wanna bring attention to it. You would leave it down, same thing with the girls. If you want a photograph to show off her clutch, you'd raise the clutch up in the shot. It brings attention to it. So when the hands aren't doing anything we put 'em at rest. Now, there's interesting things about the thumbs. Notice how his thumbs are out? That's a body language sign. This is a power stance, I don't know if you guys, okay so thumbs, hands in, thumbs out is a power stance. This is a nervous stance. This is also okay, but this like you'll watch, like when celebrities have their hands in their pockets, they generally go thumb out. It's a way of drawing visual attention and we do it, it's all done subconsciously. But that is a more, it'll have a perception of being more powerful than just putting both hands in the pockets. And I don't generally like to do this, because it also eliminates the skin. And so it kinda makes it look weird, like there's two pieces of skin on each side with clothing on each side, so. Okay so with the neck we extend slightly, just so that up here, you know, we kinda, bring his neck out a little bit. Just a little bit, you don't need to do too much. All that does is just kinda slims down the neckline a lil bit. And then with a guys walk, I always kinda show this, like I usually show this with the girls, with the guys they just walk regular. So when you walk you just walk normal. That looks great. Guys are really simple and straightforward. Let's bring in our girl. Danielle come on in. And we do this guys, before every single shoot. Now, I don't go into the depth that we do, on what we're doing here. Like we don't talk about body language. We don't talk about all these things. I might give them like a few lil tips here and there. Oh there's one thing I forgot to mention, by the way. But we don't go through this. It takes about five to 10 minutes to do this at the beginning of a shoot. And what's cool about this is, how many of us have had clients that come to us and go we're really bad in front of cameras. Raise your hand if your clients have said that to you. Okay, I guarantee, pretty much, like nine out of 10 of my clients say that. Oh but he doesn't know how to pose or we don't have experience in front of the camera or you know I've even had my like brides they like throw their groom under the bus. They're like I'm good with this but he's terrible. And I'm like it's gonna be okay, don't worry. You gotta build the guy back up, 'cause those things hurt after awhile, man. Don't they? They hurt.
Absolutely. (laughs loudly) Okay so we started this out, and the reason that we started on every single shoot is because well we tell our clients not to worry, to confidence in us and by starting the shoot with that. We'll actually arrive about 15 minutes early, we start with this and what it does is, it sets the tone for I know what I'm talking about. You know what I mean? We start the shoot out with they now understand that I'm a professional that this is what I do and the trust is established, and my camera is down this entire time. This is when we're building that relationship. I'm showing them to relax, to have confidence and they don't even think about taking a photo.